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1. I try not to think about it. That's just icky. Are people in such short supply? Or is your friend just a chew them up spit them out kind of boyfriend mill? Then maybe you need to run in a new set.
   Thu, 02nd Jul 2009 at 1:39 pm

   by Gods Child  

   
   

2. same thing I was saying;
   
   Tue, 07th Jul 2009 at 4:58 pm

   by owen  

   
   

3. I don't have any problem with it... I guess it depends on how long ago they were together, what kind of relationship they have now (are they friends or enemies, or does your friend still want the girl, or is she still into him), and on how hot the chick is.

   Like there was this girl I had a little fling with, nothing serious. I mean, she knew I had a woman at the time, (yeah, I was a cheat) but she still just wanted to get a taste of me, right, so she tried a little thing and I ended up sleeping with her a few times...

   Afterwards,we were friends... nothing more. Then one night I saw her out with one of her friends and I thought her friend was hot and so I started asking about her and she told me that she would never speak to me again if I got with her friend. I couldn't understand why! If she had expressed an interest in one of my friends, I would have introduced her and wished them well...

   I guess "for me it was just a thing, just another little fling, but for her, it was heaven and the angels dem was a sing! Its a pity.", to take what Tanya Stephens sang and change it up a bit. [confident]

   I didn't bother going after her friend, but I did think that how she went on was a bit strange...
   Sat, 04th Jul 2009 at 3:18 am

   by mad bull  

   
   

4. maybe her friend was like a sister to her
   would you have no problem moving down the line from one sister to the next?
   Mon, 06th Jul 2009 at 8:57 am

   by Gods Child  

   
   

5. total disrespect, unless they honestly didn't know.
   Sat, 04th Jul 2009 at 7:22 am

   by owen  

   
   

6. Sorry guys, the question isnt personal. But the situation is this:

   Jack and Jill dated for about a year. Things didn't work out between them but Jack's friend Joe liked Jill from the first time Jack introduced them. Joe respected his friend Jack and didn't pass the line not once and never admitted it to Jill or anyone else. Then after Jack and Jill broke up, Jill began expressing feelings for Joe and Joe did the same. Then they get together. So that's where the question has stemed from.

   [confident]
   Now, if you were Jack, how would you feel about your best friend or good friend dating your ex?
   Mon, 06th Jul 2009 at 9:04 am

   by Tami  

   
   

7. I would think that the best friend was secretly breaking us up the whole time so that he could get his grubby hands on her. How can you call that person a friend if they kept secrets like that?
   Tue, 07th Jul 2009 at 4:49 pm

   by owen  

   
   

8. yes, and how does Jill come to be getting in touch with Joe?
   I don't trust them no further than I can throw them. If they were my friends I would need new friends.
   Wed, 08th Jul 2009 at 8:45 am

   by Gods Child  

   
   

9. Personally i don't think there is anything wrong with dating the ex of a friend. If two people didn't work out, i see each person as a new person, therefore who is to say that there are some persons out of dating bounds? It's just a personal issue that some people have to deal with and quite frankly i think it's selfish. What if the friend and the ex can work out? Then just because of the friendship line they shouldn't get together? Foolishness. I can understand where some persons have a hang up over these things but seriously isn't that one less chance at finding love? Equal opportunity for all. If one doesnt work out who is to say the other wont? But i guess it comes down to the friendship and if its sustainable after the fact.
   Mon, 06th Jul 2009 at 9:08 am

   by Tami  

   
   

10. I could only see this making sense if you were on a island with 3 people.
    Tue, 07th Jul 2009 at 4:53 pm

    by owen  

    
    

11. Even if it's 3 guys on that island?
    Tue, 14th Jul 2009 at 8:32 pm

    by Tami  

    
    

12. you just had throw some gay logic in there, tsk tsk tsk
    Wed, 15th Jul 2009 at 8:27 am

    by owen  

    
    

13. If you are a true friend, you will only want happiness for your friend and your EX, and so you will give them your blessing. If you don't do that, then you are a selfish bastard and you might as well get lost anyways. They are both better off without you.

    Love will always find a way.

    I'm with you, Tami.
    Sat, 11th Jul 2009 at 9:32 pm

    by Mad Bull  

    
    

14. it's just weird to me.
    Mon, 13th Jul 2009 at 12:26 am

    by Aurie  

    
    

15. I'll be a fassy and date her.
    Sun, 13th Dec 2009 at 5:17 am

    by jayrulez